I think I’m not allowed to link to other boards, so if I shared the link here, I think my post wouldn’t show up.
I PM’d you with the link, and for other folks interested, if you google “D3 Mens Soccer Message boards” you should find the site. The board is slow in the off-season, especially with fall '2020 season not happening because of covid, but very active in season, and there are separate threads for different D3 conferences. Lots of very knowledgeable former players and well-informed, (mostly) judicious parents of players. There are definitely conversations about specific coaches at specific schools, and conversations about specific styles of play, individual players etc.