She should let the coach at the school she loves know that she has offers, and will be accepting one before Sept (if true, of course). Again, there may be more to it, but it sounds like your daughter is not high on that coach’s list. But he needs to know that if he doesn’t make an offer soon he’ll lose your daughter.
Some coaches are terrible at recruiting . . . I’ve found that correlates with weak programs too, but that’s just what I’ve seen (not claiming it’s a hard fact!).