<p>I think you have a slightly outdated perception of Durham. It is now a perfectly pleasant small city with several great restaurants and a thriving music scene. Dartmouth is significantly more fratty than Duke is, and also has a more homogenous student population by virtue of its small size. Duke arguably has more lay prestige, and undoubtedly has more school spirit (not sure whether or not those things are important to you). Just go with the school you feel more comfortable at.</p>