<p>@MikeNY5: A few comments. First, the quote – “that’s just how frats are” – comes (I believe) from a potential applicant, not anyone with an actual connection to the college. Second, as dumbo11 pointed out above, the B@B post came from a 17 who was not and could not have been a member of a fraternity. Next, I don’t see the basis for your characterization of posts (did you mean this thread or College Confidential generally?) as “rape-sympathizing,” but you are entirely correct that “yes is the only word that means yes.” </p>
<p>@passsky81: I’m just a fallible human being. Whether my opinions are balanced or not may lie mainly in the eye of the beholder. I’ll stand by them. </p>