<p>College Yahoo: Oh, I could go on and on about many things – because seriously, just about anything that could have gone wrong did – but I’ll just explain in detail the three worst of the worst.</p>
<p>One, the people dynamics. When I was there, there was an unwritten rule that if you don’t know someone after your first year, you can’t allow yourself to meet them. This sounds preposterous, but it’s true. I have no idea why people follow this rule. I am the type that is always open to meeting new people and making new friends. Well, I started off the bat with what I thought was a great group of friends in my hall. I gradually got to make my way around campus and made various friends from other places. Then my first group of friends started totally flaking on me and not replying to my blitzes anymore and not inviting me out anymore. There were more than one time when I asked them to dinner or an event and got no response; went to the cafeteria or that event anyway and saw every single one of them except for me. I confronted them and they were like, “well, we’ve know that you hang out with other people.” Then I’m like “yeah, and there have been times I’ve asked you along and you said no or gave me no response. Why not?” And they’re like “because we don’t know them.” <em>bangs head against desk</em> And then I watched in disbelief as my new “friends” did pretty much the same thing. By my senior year it got to the point where I didn’t want to try to make friends anymore because it just wasn’t worth it. I’m still flabbergasted by that entire mentality.</p>
<p>Second, the academics. They were bad. Some of them were worse than bad. They just throw as much at you and expect you to do it all. They don’t teach you how to learn, they don’t teach you how to think, they just make you work and for no purpose. I tried to take a wide variety of classes. At first, I had emperor’s new clothes syndrome. I thought since the classes were hard, that must automatically mean the classes were good. Not so. Yes, the professors are accessible. Yes, they’re all very smart. That doesn’t mean they all can teach. I went in with every intention of being a math or science major. That didn’t last. And just about everyone I know, who went to Dartmouth with every intention of being a math major, now hates math. Including me. From talking to other people, this isn’t the case at other schools. Not even other high-caliber schools. I blame the quarter system for this partially, and they claim there’s a set curriculum they have to cover each term regardless of 10 or 15 weeks, but the professors really don’t have to make the pace unreasonably fast and could go into detail about the why’s of problem solving rather than keep on repeating “we have a lot to do, and not very much time to do it” (Umm… then why don’t you just give us less to do?). The social sciences, for the most part, were just as bad. To be honest, I believe that going to Dartmouth has stunted my intellectual growth. I’m a worse thinker now than I was when I entered college. They throw so much at you, make unreasonable expectations of you, and then what ends up is you get so burned out and have so little time to get too much done that by the time you’re halfway through you just want to get it over with and don’t really care about whether or not it’s good. This is not a good education. And yet I still got A’s and B’s on all my papers and classes. I think the reason for this is after reading so many bad papers, the professor starts not to care about grading them either. Of the 30-something classes I took, I can only think of 3 of them that I’d consider “good” and maybe about a dozen that were “okay”. The rest were “bad” or worse.</p>
<p>And third, the uselessness of the Dartmouth degree outside the Northeast. I always knew I wanted to live in California. When I looked for internships here when I was at Dartmouth, none of them took me seriously because I wasn’t local. (Nevermind that I traveled 1733 miles from home to go to college, so why do they think there’s no chance I’d travel to an internship?) So I moved out here afterwards anyway. And it’s the same for jobs. Hardly anyone in California knows what Dartmouth is. I have been asked more than once if it’s two-year or vocational. It seems that the people making the hiring decisions have the same mentality too. For all I put up with, this is not acceptable. So here I am, third year out, working at Starbucks, because I’ve been rejected by every other job and grad school I’ve applied to. Which I guess is okay, but I didn’t have to go to Dartmouth in order to work at Starbucks.</p>
<p>And all throughout college and beyond, I tried to stay upbeat and optimistic. They told me attitude is everything. But gah…I just don’t know what to do with my life anymore.</p>
<p>bluebayou: Yes, I’m very well aware of that now. As I said, I should have just picked a completely different set of schools to apply to. (I think I would have done quite well at, say, Berkeley, though that might have been difficult for out-of-state. Or Boulder… or maybe UW or NYU. Even UVM would have been better. None of which I applied to.)</p>
<p>I guess somehow convinced myself that academically, Dartmouth would have been the best fit (and even that ended up not being true), and that’s what’s really important. I visited it, and it wasn’t really what I wanted, but four years didn’t seem like too long to make do. I was wrong. Also, when I visited, everyone looked so happy to be there. There were such good vibes in the air. I thought what the hell, I’d be happy too. Once again, I was wrong. </p>
<p>I had concerns about it before enrolling. I expressed my concerns on a few college discussion boards and was convinced by well-meaning '04s that Dartmouth had something for everyone. That couldn’t have been further from the truth. :-</p>
<p>It might have been the Ivy moniker. But I didn’t even apply to any of the other Ivy league schools (All of which would have been a better fit than Dartmouth.) So truthfully, I don’t even know what it is. A little bit of many things, probably.</p>