<p>There is nothing terrible about what you’ve said you want. That’s totally normal. Some kids want relationships in college, many don’t. My only advice to you is 1. be upfront about what you want, be careful not to lead anyone on-- you need to make sure you are on the same page with anyone you are involved with, because it feels like crap to want more than a physical relationship and find out later that’s all the other person wanted from you, and 2. realize you can go with the flow and don’t have to commit to dating or not dating, you never know what you might decide you want. Within a week or two of deciding I wasn’t going to date in college (after a disastrous first semester in terms of dating drama) I met my fiance. Life’s funny that way. Just enjoy yourself and be honest with people about your intentions and you’ll be fine.</p>