Daughter affected by "prestige" bug... any advice?

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I resent your implication that we expect someone else to pay for our kid’s educations. Our EFC is in the mid $60’s. S has a merit scholarship, and we hope that D will at least have some merit offers as well. </p>

<p>BTW, if your kids are at public schools the taxpayers are helping to pay for their education costs. We consider ourselves to be “someone else” wrt your children.</p>