Daughter is struggling at her dream school :~(

<p>There is a lot of good advice posted above. </p>

<p>My d got to college as an Engineering major and academically had to make a big adjustment. The classes are hard. While she has always been studious, she found herself at study sessions on weekend evenings and making appointments with professors to discuss tests, etc. She’s called us in tears upon getting a 60 ot 70% in a math class, only to have the curve turn it into a B. She stuck it out and is very happy. The classes are still hard. BUT, we would have encouraged her to explore other majors if she was truly inclined to. We discussed it numerous times. The world is full of options.</p>