Daughter looking for business program, sorority and big time sports in the South [NY resident, 90 GPA, <$45-50k]

And OP should absolutely factor that in. Each school will have a budget.

They can be thousands a semester -I’m reading $3-5k on line but some include meals.

Good point - OP may need to ratchet down the budget. I’m so thankful my daughter’s were less than $1k per year.