<p>From a spouse who’s DH had female and male commanders, everything everyone else said is true. Military members are equal opportunists when complaining about their commanders ;). They never complained about them anymore or any less due to their gender, they complained about them due to their leadership abilities.</p>
<p>The AF is not the same as it was 20 yrs ago when Jeannie Flynn got in, it is no longer a rarity to see female fighter pilots or squadron commanders. The AFA has had female cadets for a very long time, they have worked out the wrinkles.</p>
<p>Fencer is right sometimes they have special circumstances, like ds’s DD because she doesn’t make the weight limit, she has to be escorted on windy days to insure she doesn’t blow away :D</p>
<p>I do have a question, and maybe I am reading into this more than I should, but if she is a C4C is there an underlying issue that makes you pose this question now, compared to posing it last yr before she entered?</p>