@GimmeSomeCoffee
My daughter is a freshman at Williams, where she runs XC and track and Davidson was also on her list. She’s loving it! The team is super cohesive (and not just the distance runners who are obviously together for the fall xc season). She’s found the team social scene really her speed - not a big drinker. Feel free to PM with any questions!
I’ll add the following: the men’s and women’s teams are together most of the time - practices, meets, meals, etc. The team throws a few parties and explicitly states that they want non-drinkers, those who are just dipping a toe into drinking, and those who drink all to be respected and welcomed for whatever their choice is. They want the team to be the runners’ family and for everyone to feel comfortable being wherever they are on the partying spectrum without any pressure to change who they are.
As parents, we’ve been really happy with the team, the coaches, the guidance of the upperclassmen, etc. It’s (so far, fingers crossed) exactly what a parent would hope a team at a small, isolated new england college would be. Our kid had a home and friends from Day 1. She’s also making all sorts of friends now not from the team (from the dorm, a lab partner, a club member) but there was much comfort for her and us how warmly the runners are brought into the fold at Williams.
None of this is to say that wouldn’t happen at Davidson, so it’s not a knock on that school or program. It’s simply to say how well Williams and the team did on the things that kids and parents want to see (they aren’t all the same) as college begins.
I’ll add another thought now that I’ve caught up on the thread: I agree with @politeperson that east coast, especially NE, especially running the D3 vs D1 breakdown isn’t really telling. The strongest D3 programs easily would beat many many D1 teams, and you’ll see many runners who are facing the choice of top academic and athletic D3 vs non-major D1 program (a Davidson or W&M or Leligh or Rice) choose the D3 for whatever reason b/c the there isn’t a meaningful distinction on running alone. Some D3 runners choose that over an Ivy. So, to the extent that west coast running culture wouldn’t have brought that to light, it’s something to consider.
Also, obviously NYC and Boston are huge placement areas for Williams, but plenty of grads return to the west coast from Williams and are easily able to be recruited to/find jobs in that geographic area. Several of my friends from back in the day were Williams grads who returned home to CA and we know of many more currently. To the extent that is a concern, I would suggest it maybe doesn’t need to be.