<p>Ikemom, It would serve you well to really explore the school’s policy and get into conversation with them. We never encountered this situation for our kids, but others in the past few years have endured pressure from schools to make a decision. In 2012 there was exceptional controversy with one school where accepted students were actually released after deposits were not made to that school, if I remember correctly. I believe that school’s policy has changed. It’s true as vvnstar’s post notes that the association of counselors is in agreement about the deadline. But, legally speaking it could be a different issue. It’s a shame these different policies aren’t always disclosed before application/audition. Perhaps some of the college or independent counselors who visit here can help with any current approaches to this or leverage an accepted student can use. It’s good that you brought this up as it seems to be that time of year. I’m sorry the practice seems to be continuing with some schools. It’s practically impossible to make a decision on a school without knowing about other acceptances and then subsequent scholarship and financial aid money. Wish you well! </p>