They send an email to go to your portal. I am a parent and have experienced very little drama around this. But today I am nervous for my son. It’s his first choice and he is feeling the anxiety this week. He said he will tell us when he is ready and in his own way. Makes sense to me. Then he is going to hang out with a good friend which I think is a great idea too. He will need time to process the decision no matter what. He’s that kind of guy. I’ll be relieved either way when we all just know.