<p>Confused as to how “Greek Life” is important to you, but you can’t join a frat. I don’t know too much about Greek Life, but I’ve heard that it is not easy to get “in” if you’re not part of a frat… I could be wrong; it’s just a perception from what I read.</p>
<p>Bucknell and Lehigh seem to fit most of your requirements. Lehigh isn’t in the middle of nowhere though; it’s in Allentown, PA. Sort of urbany, but it’s not Philly. Both are matches.</p>
<p>UVM should be a match, possibly even a safety for you. It does have a bigger enrollment though; I believe more than 10,000 or close to it. I don’t know too much about Elon, but I don’t think it would be a safety. Low match, maybe mid? I don’t know too much about it.</p>