<p>One of the things I remember my fourth grade teacher saying was that it’s okay to be spoiled as long as you have a sense of responsibility.</p>
<p>I think a lot of us are more spoiled than we think we are. But most of us have a sense of responsibility. While “spoiled” does carry a negative connotation, I don’t think it necessarily marks you as a bad person. I mean, if you’ve been raised in a comfortable home with giving parents, then you get used to it. But I think that’s where being “spoiled” and being a “spoiled brat” diverge. </p>
<p>When you’re spoiled, you may be used to living in luxury, but you’re aware that you’re lucky, that you can’t expect the rest of the world to revolve around you. I think I’m spoiled because my parents give me all I need and sometimes more. I take for granted what others may never live to see - hot showers, fresh food, warm sheets, toilet paper even. When I go to a different part of the world where toilet paper isn’t always a given, yes, I will wish I was at home. And, you know what? Most of the time, I do take these things for granted. But I wouldn’t call mysef a brat because I understand my parents work for their money. I prefer having my own part-time job for spending money. And I’m used to hearing ‘no’ (but my parents do say ‘yes’ more often).</p>
<p>Spoiled brats tend to think they’re entitled to whatever they want, that they “deserve” special treatment just for being their parents’ darling. When they want something, they want it right now.</p>
<p>The difference isn’t always clear, though.</p>