^ that. If you’re truly interested, you know why, right? This is so much more than superficial contact. And it shows in your app/supp that you match what they like. You’ve taken time to dig into what they value in their community, what they offer. Be one of the kids where they can say, “he gets it.”
The difference is when you live near (ish) a college. Then, of course, if you dont visit, they wonder why not.