Denied at reach school (ND), help me pick school for me--Dayton, Marquette, Xavier, etc

We know kids at Marquette who have been very happy – great school spirit, not a suitcase school. Dayton, Xavier and Marquette are all good Catholic schools, with some big sports teams, good community feel. Kids love Butler too. Any of those 4 – Marquette, Dayton, Xavier and Butler, sound like good matches for your priorities. Have you visited those 4, done an admitted students’ day or overnight?