Department of Justice study: ~4% of college women raped each year, ~10% sexually assaulted

Don’t be so sure about how well men understand what prostitutes wear while working. Clearly, prostitutes dress however they dress to signal availability, but some men are clueless. One time, when I was in my 20s and very naive, I was walking along the street to get to the grocery store. I was wearing shorts and a T-shirt, no makeup, and my hair was its usual random self.

A car stopped next to me; I figured the guy wanted directions or something. To my surprise he said, “I’ll give you twenty dollars.” I had no idea what was going on. Why was this strange man offering me money? My first impulse was to say, “OK, hand it over,” but I figured nothing good was going to come of this encounter so I just turned and walked away. It was only years later that I realized he was trying to solicit me for prostitution.

It turns out the particular stretch of road was known (not by me) for having hitchhiking prostitutes on it. I later remembered that a boyfriend had had a related problem on the same road: he picked up what he thought was a hitchhiker, only to discover that she was a prostitute trying to get work.


In any case, prostitutes dress to express availability for paid sex. Nobody, not prostitutes, not anyone else, dresses to get raped.