<p>Agree with the above posters. Counseling can be a HUGE lifesaver–campuses are VERY good at providing appropriate resources. You should have SOME health insurance connected with being a student or being on your folks’ plan. That gives you even more options for counselors. They can help you feel more comfortably socially and help you develop skills for making and keeping friends. They can also help you figure out what careers would be a good match for your interests and skillset.</p>
<p>You have MANY options and it is NOT unusual to be trying to figure out what you want. It is unfair and unfortunate that your folks are pushing you so hard to “have a plan,” especially since they haven’t paid much out-of-pocket for you.</p>
<p>Take good care of yourself and please keep us posted. You’re an awesome person and have great things to look forward to!</p>