<p>If a person is a “bad test-taker” there is a REASON they can’t demonstrate their knowledge base in that format. Speaking in generalities and not about any one person, perhaps they have test anxiety, ADHD, impairment in speed of information processing, deficits in the automaticity of fluency in reasoning, graphomotor problems, visual scanning problems, cross-modal integration problems ,expressive language problems, memory difficulties,a reading or math disorder, trouble with organization/prioritization/executive function, NLD, you name it. Or maybe they do not understand test-taking strategies, do not have adequate study skills, or do not have the cognitive capacity to perform at a higher level than they did. Or maybe they are unwilling to put in the time ane effort it takes to study, have poor time management skills, blame everyting but the kitchen sink for their difficulties and do not take ownership of the issue and how to manage it. Sure there are people who are more naturally gifted in many areas, but if there truly is a big schism between one’s academic abilities and their performance on structured testing, then there is SOMETHING going on. </p>
<p>IIRC, Calmom, your dau had a huge discrepancy in her test scores (700s and 500s maybe? I dont recall exactly), and also, IIRC, Barnard was a reach, and you were pleasantly surprised at her admission. Thats all great. I still think Clark was a reach for EC, but noting that they have an** almost 70% admission rate**, want more males and geographical distribution representation, then these are all factors that likely helped tip the hat. And his GPA seemed to show an upward trend. Take full credit if you were the one and only one to suggest it. Its a good school and fits many of the OP’s desires. So hopefully its affordable. That remains to be seen.</p>
<p>Also, IIRC, your s had an identified learning issue. You looked into it, identified it early on, addressed it and remediated or accomodated it. You didnt make excuses or claim that you/he didn’t “believe in tests” .</p>
<p>The OP originally (after abandoning the early college idea) had some pretty lofty college targets (NYU, Vassar, to name a few). If he really wanted to be competitive for those schools, then taking a laissez faire " I am too busy and don’t have time to study and the study class I took was a joke" attitude was not going to end well. And it didn’t. There may have been tenacity shown, but it wasn’t always directed at the appropriate priority at the time. </p>
<p>If a person is a “bad test-taker” and makes no effort to identigy causality or remediate it, they either can work to avoid the tests (ie test optional schools) and select career paths that will not require it (the op has mentioned theater, journalism, etc). But if grad or professional school (or a career requiring certification) is in the future, then there will be tests to take… GREs LSACs, MCATs, licensing exams, state/professional/technical certification exams etc. It is not entirely easy to skirt the possibility of having to face an exam, but it is doable in some fields.</p>
<p>Many of us tried and tried and tired to be helpful. Maybe we were, and maybe we weren’t. We started out gently, and became increasingle direct (or many simply gave up). But merely rationalizing that one is a “bad test taker” and blaming the world for their issues instead of taking ownership of them isn’t helpful either. JMO.</p>