<p>hey, suburbian, first off, congrats</p>
<p>second, i feel like this is an issue of “you reap what you sow”…I firmly belong to the camp that would never write a “you are my first-choice” letter…but you did it expecting that it would get you somewhere…so I’d feel morally obligated</p>
<p>sorry, that didn’t make much sense jetlagged…</p>