@geoff1212 - As a fellow parent you have my deepest sympathies. That must feel so wrong. I have read other responses and I share their views: your son should have been an easy acceptance to VT, college of eng. Our family has experienced similar setbacks (wait listed to 3 schools) but for us an acceptance to VT school of engineering (with lower grades/scores) felt like a lifeline - a wonderful gift after so many disappointments. Here are my thoughts /suggestions.
- I agree with a previous poster. Your son’s guidance counselor should call and respectfully question their decision. Did they receive all the materials? Was their a lingering doubt/confusion about the application? Was the pool of applicants from DS’s school unusually strong? Could they check sons application again to be sure they didn’t make a mistake?
2). Ask if he can receive first refusal to Gen Eng is there are any openings after May 1st.
- Seriously consider Universal studies. It is wrong, I agree to settle for that, but being bitter and rancorous is not going to help. This could be a major character building opportunity to your son and could be presented as such. Transferring from US is possible and well documented on previous threads. When you feel so mad /upset you could scream, remember you son NOT rejected or waitlisted. This could be portrayed (when the dust settles!) as a minor setback only.
4). Review all fin. Aid packages carefully. You may be surprised that OOS is affordable or even a cheaper option.
Again, I feel for you. You are not alone. Be strong for your very disappointed son. Tell him (and yourself) to look on the bright side. The shock/frustration/anger will pass and everyone will feel better soon, I promise.