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<p>Hmm … I went to Cornell 30 years ago and … I let’s just say I had a VERY different experience than Florida Dad. </p>
<p>Eventually I figured out that after “everyone” went out to frat parties and/or drinking that there were actually a lot people still in the dorm … I would wander the hall and find the other students still around and see if I arrange a card game / trip to a movie / trip to game on campus / etc … and eventually developed my core group of non frat/party friends.</p>