<p>I think you made a mistake.</p>
<p>I went to Cornell, albeit 40 years ago.</p>
<p>I didn’t join a frat, because I thought it was stupid and juvenile.</p>
<p>While I still kind of feel that way, the fact is that if you join a frat, you have 40 ready made friends, and you have invites to parties. For example, the sister sorority might invite you to their parties, because you are a member of their “brother” frat.</p>
<p>And frat guys at Cornell would often find out about parties that girls at Syracuse were putting on.</p>
<p>I know this is not want you want to hear, but I have told my son to join a frat.</p>