@ucbalumnus. Not my intention for the comment. But I agree with what you are saying. Yes, some kids need that much time. I was just thinking about my two very different kids. It appears to us that my son needed time to grow and mature into the 20 year old that he is today. I am talking more mental maturity not that he was immature per se. These two years in college like transformed him into this go getter and not the introverted kid he was as an entering freshman. We told both our kids that they don’t have to be the same kids that they were in high school. They could sorta reinvent themsleves in college to whom they want to become. He took this to heart in a positive way. But I agree with your comments also.