I totally agree with you. I don’t believe that my kids subscribe to the “being on the same level or better” fallacy that I see a lot in younger millennials and Gen Z, but it is something that I hear often. Character, loyalty, and communication matter so much more than some of the superficial criteria keeping some who want relationships from being in one, because we both understand that a person can “build” with someone with the right mindset. I know that I am thankful everyday that my wife took a “chance” on me.
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