Dilemma

<p>^Yes, because clearly it is one or the other. I bet the members of the Yale football team, for instance, will end up doing nothing with their lives. </p>

<p>I second nitwitoddment’s advice. I believe, though, that they refer to it as a “quarter-life crisis.” With top students, it generally works the other way around (college-age students bored with their lives who want to do more things they enjoy).</p>