<p>I went to mine, we went to all the kids, but I skipped grad school graduation (was already working halfway across the country and couldn’t afford to go back.)</p>
<p>I wouldn’t turn this into a battle royale- just make the hotel reservations now, you can always cancel with no charge.</p>
<p>He may change his mind, he may not, he may have good reasons or they may be frivolous ones, but why start a fight a year ahead of time. More important for all of you to be on the same page as far as his plans the day AFTER graduation, in my opinion.</p>