This is so true - both are time-consuming majors. If the OP winds up at a school that doesnt have a music major, it may open up an easier path to enjoy performing while still in college. Clemson offered music as a minor but not a major, so STEM, education, or accounting students made up the marching and symphonic bands, the chamber singers, the pit crew for theater productions, and any other musical performances that occurred. Music lessons in a variety of instruments were available for credit. Obviously we didnt get the training of a music major, but we got to do our music through college.