<p>All I can tell you, is that the TV shows you see tend to over exaggerate everything. That being said, at the UG level in NA, there is a lot of partying. I never see grad students at any of our frat parties, in fact, most of those that attend my frats parties are either fellow greeks, and 1st and 2nd year students. I do hope that Grad school will be at least slightly similar to UG in terms of the partying aspect (mostly because I am so used to it, drinking age in Canada is 19 so you start going to clubs and bars at the end of your first year, lol in March, I was getting drunk 3 times a week, which now looking back, was probably not the best idea in terms of staying healthy), especially because (hopefully) I will start graduate school at 22.</p>