^^ If that’s the case, the OP needs to be prepared to be paying $60k a year, at least until a second student is in college, and perhaps even then. The ONLY schools that will consider FA to families at that income level are the uber-elite (HYPS) and the student does not appear competitive for one of them.
Do we know what state this family lives in? So many flagships (and other public research unis) have good CS.