Here is a link to websites that help people find volunteer opportunities in their local areas.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/13/volunteering-websites_n_4551665.html
I am also an adoptive parent and volunteered three times at privately run orphanages in China - twice in a palliative care unit. So emotional, but I found it satisfying as the children did seem to enjoy my presence and attention. It was kind of crazy as they had local Chinese women that performed all the caregiving for the children, but they had volunteers who rotated in and out to supervise the Chinese staff, dispense the meds, and make any necessary purchases, including the food for the children. I was given a list of the children’s meds and dosages, and all the other important info, but then I was left on my own for two weeks. I spoke very little Chinese so it was interesting when I was told by the nannies, that I needed to go food shopping and they had to try to explain the types of vegetables and foods that I needed to purchase. I was not familiar with any of the foods. One of them turned out to be millet, which I hadn’t realized was used for anything but bird food. Anyway, I got to the food market and tried to pick out the vegetables and had to grab some locals and ask their opinions on produce selection. Kind of like asking someone who has never seen or eaten an avocado to go buy some nice avocados. I got some good advice via head shakes and thumbs ups.
I also made some items and donated to charity auctions for some of my favorite adoption related non-profit organizations.
I went on four international medical missions (as a non-medical volunteer) with a well known organization. They were amazing experiences, but unfortunately, a good number of the medical personnel were rude, arrogant, and just plain cranky and snotty to the locals and the rest of the team who had important, but non medical duties. No offense to any medical people here but that was the case. For example it was not polite for an American nurse to mock and mimic Indian waiters - in a public restaurant - who waggled their heads in a combo nod/shake - that is a cultural thing. Then it was not polite to get said waiters’ attention by snapping your fingers. And it was not a good idea, as one of the plastic surgeons demanded, to leave the two high school female interns at the hotel thousands of miles from their homes because they were not on the bus to the airport on time. Holy moly.
One thing that impressed me very much was that the teams of 50+ volunteers were led by recent college graduates (4 year - so about 22 years old). They had the job of arranging all the logistics of making hotel reservations, recruiting the team members, arranging the travel for the volunteers who came from all over the world, securing local daily transit for the team, and then, once on site, managing the daily operations of the two week missions which was VERY complex and unpredictable. They had to be travel agents, event planners, dispute mediators, cultural liaisons, and supervisors of a group of adults most of which were 10+ years older than them. I was amazed at how capable those young people were.
I’m too old and decrepit to do that kind of thing these days, but I would recommend it to others who have a sense of adventure and are easy going and tolerant. I felt I made some valuable contributions and aside from the rude medical volunteers, I met many wonderful people, and especially remember the connections I made with the patients. local staff members and random ordinary citizens I had the chance to interact with (I had a mutually beneficial relationship with a 10 year old boy who showed up every day at one of the hospitals I worked at. The patient evaluations were conducted outdoors in this particular place, and no one could figure out who he belonged to or why he was hanging around. But I needed a Coke fix, so I asked him to go to the street to get me a Coke a couple of times a day. First he told me I had to find a bottle, because they wouldn’t sell you a soda if you didn’t bring a bottle. So I asked around and we got one. So he first went and got me a Coke with the bottle - the protocol was that you exchanged the empty with payment for a regular cold bottle of Coke, and then I’d drink the first one, and then give him the bottle and more money to buy his own Coke, and he got to keep the change. He was so sweet! I sent him a care package of sticker books and other fun boy stuff when I got home, but I never heard back from him
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