<p>I don’t know… I certainly wouldn’t EXPECT a man to give up his bus seat for me (…I’ve never been on a public bus, but still lol) but if he did I wouldn’t think it was odd, I’d think he was a very nice gentleman. Most of the guys I hang out with would definitely give their seat up and insist the woman sat down.</p>
<p>I would however think it was odd if a complete stranger (who was a woman) helped a man with his luggage, but I’m not sure if you meant strangers or someone you know.</p>
<p>I agree holding the door for someone should go both ways, but probably most men would hold it for those extra few seconds if a woman was there instead of a man</p>