<p>I had a similar option, living 5 miles from school and lenient parents in a house with privacy and amenities. But I still decided to dorm because it builds character and you meet people/get involved in a way you couldn’t as a commuter. Still, it’s not the end of the world if you stay at home, it’s just 1-2 years of your life, and I know commuters who are still very involved and social.</p>