Down to Four Choices...Need Advice

“I don’t want her to have to worry about tens of thousands of dollars of student loan debt”

This is a very good thing to keep in mind.

I have only talked to a very small number of people who have worked in musical theater. However, based on what they said I would avoid taking on any debt. I think that I would assume as the parent that any debt that is taken on will need to be paid back by the parents.