Thanks for your comments and viewppints.
NE would probably require 30-40K of loans.
Drexel, which is roughly the same price as NE, gave her 42K/year vs NEwhich gave us 20k.
Temple (which is lower priced to begin with) gave her full tuition, plus the two 4K stipends.
She got into Honors program at Drexel and Temple, but not at NE (so no priority registration).
It is really such a rough decision with many varying opinions. Some people are saying that NE would pay for itself eventually, while others say graduating with no debt and saving money for other experiences (study abroad, or even for a first apt) is smarter. Agh!