^^^ thanks. Often a post I come across is just one in a series of questions on a topic a person has posted so I think I can give better advice if I can put their post into context. Here I was hoping to find a person that recently got cold feet but in the past was enthusiastic about the school, to which my response would have been reassurance and to trust their judgement in the past. Instead it looks like she consistently had deep reservations about Colby.