As a US citizen, you can move here, get a job, and work to establish residency on your own in one of the states that will allow that. For example, you would be considered a resident for tuition and fees at my local community college once you have lived in this county for three months, and if you can prove that you provide more than half of your own support.
How much can your family afford to pay for your education?
Are you moving here on your own, or are you moving back with parents who are citizens or legal permanent residents?