<p>Oh, you are a big help, Warbler! I didn’t think I’d get a response on a Saturday. </p>
<p>Sooo… great. I think I threw that brochure away. </p>
<p>I made him apply to a bunch of schools, and the mail is creating chaos in our lives and schedules. I saw there wasn’t a lot of merit money out there to be had, and with so many fabulous candidates, I figured he needed to apply to several to be sure of a way to pay for school. Well, all the things started arriving at once, and in the chaos of this home it was a bit difficult to sift through it all. </p>
<p>For example, he just got back from Wake’s interviews. 20 invited, 9 will full ride. He got a no yesterday. Sad, but having several other things in the hopper makes it easier to digest. He’s going in a couple of weeks to interview for ACU’s Presidential and to tour some of those schools. He was invited out to USC for their Presidential, but I don’t think we’ll even go b/c it’s just half tuition. By the time one does the other half plus room and board, it’s $100,000 debt (although AP credits could help). So there’s no point going to fall in love with something he can’t afford to do. Plus, there’s a limit to how many days it’s wise to keep being gone from school.</p>
<p>Long story short, I got the Duke brochure, and it wasn’t an invitation to interview so I figured it was just a gracious offer w/ no possible money, so no point in going. What are your thoughts. There is no possible way he can go if he doesn’t scholarship, so do we skip the visit? Help me figure this out!!</p>
<p>We’re still waiting to hear from Furman about the Lay Scholarship, and also will wait to hear from Princeton, although he won’t qualify for need based scholarships unless they read our plea via letter. (One SN kid has required brain scans in DC, orthomolecular medicine in Chicago, neurodevelopmental treatment in Seattle, and SN private school at $25,000 per year. Also has another sibling in $15,000 private school ~ can you say, "Like squeezing blood out of a turnip?)</p>
<p>GRATEFULLY,
sara</p>