The “requests” language is directly from the BC “General” Questions on the Common App (when you choose Early Action):
“I acknowledge the following statement. Students applying to Boston College under Early Action are free to apply to other Early Action and Regular Decision programs. However, Boston College requests that students applying to a binding Early Decision program not apply to our Early Action program.”
If you can change the language there, @DevlinHall208, you probably should. I’m not sure how many people are going to hunt down the language on your website when the CommonApp and agreement they are signing is right in front of them.