Oops! Ignore this post- I didn’t see the date of the original convo and it’s all happened by now! Sorry!
If she ends up loving Haverford on the fly-in, I would ED there- at least ED2. They seem to give a pretty big boost to ED (I know my D benefited from it this year). Otherwise, I think that you are already on the right track with the ED 1 and 2 plans, then the rest RD if it gets to that.