<p>Greenwitch, our GC and what I personally saw while looking at schools with my 3 boys, is that LACs and Catholic schools tend to be lean on male applicants. So they are more generous with them. It hurts a school terribly for its M/F ration to fall beyond 40/60 is what I have heard, and a number of schools are close to that. So just being a male often gives a student preferential packainging and an increased chance in admissions.</p>
<p>We particularly see this here with a number of Catholic schools in the area that are very popular with Catholic high school kids. Many a mom of a girl has been upset in seeing some male kid, including sometimes their own, getting a better deal for lower stats. Happened to some friends of mine. Their daughter was an excellent student, motivated student, wonderful person, a catch for any college. The son, well, his test scores were as good as his sister’s. Guess who got into BC and who did not? </p>
<p>And because each school can define need really on an individual basis with the professional latitude given when it comes to school funds, there is no way anyone can put together a list without a lot of guesswork going into it. That’s why if you need or want money, you should put together a varied list. You just never know where you’ll hit the jackpot and where you are put on the surplus list. </p>
<p>My son was an athletic recruit that should and did make a difference in admissions to some of the schools on his list. But there were schools where the coach was just not interested. He had what he wanted on his team in terms of what S could give and he was looking for something else. Wouldn’t always say it right out, because he wanted to hedge his bets as long as he could. So it works with admissions. One of the more bitter disappointments that a friend of mine had this year was a LAC who is well known for its caliber in music programs who really seemed so interested in the D, waitlisted her Another student without such an outstanding profile from the same high school was accepted, and she had shown little interest in that school as it was an add on to her list whereas it was a top choice for my friend’s D, Who the heck knows what happened? It just did. </p>
<p>Even need blind schools practice preferential packaging even without merit awards. </p>
<p>Merit aid is unpredictable as well and can be more selective than getting into the most selective colleges when you are talking about some of the more generous packages. The only time you can pretty much count on merit money is if the school has set standards such as a gpa and SAT cut off for the awards. Even then, some schools are changing the language ever so slightly to say that those standards are “for consideration for merit awards” which no longer has that guarantee. </p>
<p>What’s crazy is that the least generous school according to stats available, could be the one giving your kid the most amount of money, merit OR fin aid You’re right, it’s crazy, and it’s like playing th lottery.</p>