You are not a resident of CA. You won’t get a nickel of need based aid from the CA public colleges.
NYU…$72,000 a year and they require the NCP Profile, and the school doesn’t meet full need.
Who helped you craft your application list?
You need realistic, and affordable options.
And now that you KNOW your dad won’t do the NCP Profile, and won’t contribute…you need to put your efforts into realistically possible schools.