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<p>Oh! That’s easy!</p>
<p>The reason you shouldn’t attempt it is twofold. First, it won’t work, so don’t bother. Second, you have no right to dictate to your kid what to think as he goes through the system.</p>
<p>If your son gets in, you WILL hear comments like the ones above at least once, and most likely SEVERAL times. That’s life.</p>
<p>The question becomes, what do you say to him when the comments arrive so he WON’T make a rash decision and just up and quit? THAT question has alread been answered. :)</p>