<p>As I mentioned to hopeful in a pm, I am of an opinion, based on what my parents did NOT do for me when faced w/ the same issue, that the option of coming home should be eliminated from his choices. Make it clear that scholarship decisions have been made; admissions considerations are different; a decision has been made and, as is too common in life, you must bear the consequences for a period of time.</p>
<p>While it is one thing to be supportive, it is quite another to offer words of “we’ll support you whatever your decision” or “I’m sure you will make the right decision.” Unfortunately, the decision might be to come home; with life consequences the result.</p>
<p>I wish my parents had “made” me stay when I first went away to school. My parents made it too easy for me to choose coming home.</p>
<p>Visit him every other weekend if necessary, but make it clear that he must stay the course for the year.</p>