<p>Let me share part of an email I recieved from my son at USMA during re-orgy week 2004 (with his permission): </p>
<p>“I am in a huge depression. I just am not happy, ever. I think about giving up constantly but know that I can’t. I feel trapped like I can’t breathe. I need to get out. I don’t think I want it enough. I don’t think I want it at all. I’m hurting so bad, I’m in tears as I write this. I just don’t have the motivation or desire anymore. I don’t want this. I need to talk to you so bad. I just want to leave it. I proved myself through beast and thought it would get better, it’s worse. Please help…”</p>
<p>Not an easy email to receive as a parent – but we talked and agreed that such a decision shouldn’t be made in the heat of the moment. He took a deep breath and kept going. I am pleased to say that he is anxiously anticipating his Oath of Affirmation tomorrow night, and feels he couldn’t be in a place more suited to him. He’s had a great two years, and is looking forward to the rest. </p>
<p>Let your son know you support him whatever his decision, but try to encourage him to give it a real chance. If not he may spend the next 60 years wondering “what if”…</p>