<p>Atlantiz: Yes, in theory, you can. I think the point that some are making, however, is that the internet should never be assumed to be fully private, no matter what your “settings” are (especially on a networking site, where even if you attempt to regulate the flow of traffic, the point of having a profile is that people will see it). Privacy settings should never be a substitute for good judgment.</p>
<p>Collegemom: Yes, facebook IS a great networking tool for all of those reasons. However, it also provides a very easy opportunity for its (primarily) young audience to exercise poor judgment. Yes, things could happen over which an individual has no direct control–a false profile, for example. But there’s plenty that individuals CAN control, and yet often neglect to–inappropriate photos and comments, groups/photos/comments that suggest illegal or wildly immature activity, or what have you. I know frighteningly few people who actually take steps to keep their profiles relatively “clean,” because they naively believe that the site is completely secure, or that no one will care about what they put online. My advice isn’t “don’t join” (this is becoming almost impractical among certain age-groups), but is “know what you’re opening yourself up to, and exercise caution accordingly.”</p>
<p>Another point is that we keep talking about one’s ‘friends’ versus other non-friend network users. And it’s true, some individuals are exceptionally careful about who they ‘friend’ on networking websites, so ‘facebook friend’ and actual friend are synonymous. But as someone who really only ‘friends’ and accepts requests from people I know (versus random hot strangers, or everyone from my hometown, or a friend-of-a-friend with a vaguely interesting profile), I’m among the more discerning users that I’ve ever known. And even at that, I have plenty of facebook ‘friends’ who I really don’t know: people I went to elementary school with, the best friend who moved away after second grade, my partner from the take-home math exam sophomore year, my friend’s ex-boyfriend, my old roommate’s sister’s best friend, a guy I met on vacation in Florida. Over a few years, the names have added up even as the connections have expired. Just something to think about since it’s so easy to forget that one’s 50, 100, or 300-some-odd facebook ‘friends’ don’t actually constitute that secure or close-knit of a group.</p>
<p>Finally, remember to think about on-campus employers. I know kids who applied to be RAs (resident advisors), and had extensive underage drinking photos on their profiles. The hiring committee, both students and staff, had access to facebook, and they used it. I don’t know to what degree they relied on it, or actually based decisions on online info, but I couldn’t believe that applicants wouldn’t have even considered this as a possibility. Recommendation writers could potentially access the info, as well. Just good possibilities to think about and be aware of!</p>