@incogneato, are you attending WLAC full time? Are you completing WA units at the same time toward your AA from them? Is your fiancé paying OOS fees now? Did the loan originate here in CA?
Since it appears you moved to CA for school – I assume it was to be with your fiancé – and you are currently paying OOS fees, it is possible they may not consider you a resident even after you are accepted. Only the Residence Deputy can determine that, with everything you will eventually submit.
I suggest you contact the Non-traditional Students network at UCLA in hopes of finding someone in a similar situation. http://www.transfers.ucla.edu/Student-Involvement/Transfer-Student-Orgs
Good luck – it is mighty hard to obtain in-state residency!