<p>Correction on my math-- older 's college apps were 6 years ago! My how time flies.</p>
<p>Calreader-
Older s could have make a home for himself at several schools and would have been fine, but he was clearly more selective in his wants, his preferences, his criteria, etc than younger s. Older s made a very detailed excel spread sheet with the pro’s/cons of each school he was considering, using multiple criteria that impressed the college counselors so much they asked for a copy of it. He forgot to tell them that his mentioning of the ready availability of pot at Brown on his spread sheet was a NEGATIVE for him, LOL-- it just said “pot readily available” on his sheet or something!! :eek: Hope they had a good laugh! </p>
<p>He really <em>wanted</em> to like all the schools. The 13 schools we visited were selected based on a pretty thorough research of schools. He loved the LACs he visited and I really thought we were done after his visits to Williams and Amherst (he loved them) but when he decided he wanted a school with engineering (good thing-- its what he ultimately majored in) off the list they came. If you’re in the field, calreader, you can probably figure out what schools made his list just from the criteria described so far. </p>
<p>But as may of you have said, maybe thats the exception, not the rule. Many kids can be happy almost anywhere. Younger s wanted “warm weather” and “not a huge state U” (well, not our big state U) but was pretty open to almost anything else. Only other criteria, was that although he isnt religious, he didnt want to go to a school where he’d feel weird or out of place based on his religion. And his major can be found anywhere. It was easier to find schools he could see himself attending. He (and I) couldn’t see him completing a large number of applications. Wasn’t gonna happen. Once he got an early acceptance with $$ (selected as part of his admissions strategy, and where he ultimtely chose to attend), his effort into the application process changed. One application that was in process he never completed. </p>
<p>Older s’s approach was different. He sat in on classes, met with faculty and got a tour of the research labs at each of the 13 schools we visited. Each was an all day process (ugh). He even ate lunch with the faculty at Williams. Younger s took a different approach, but still, we visited 10 or so schools in advance of his applying, and for each (especially older s) that made a HUGE difference. Understand that many cannot visit schools before applying and some people recommend not visiting unless accepted, but for my s’s , visiting made all the difference. I think older s’s application list would definitely have been bigger had he not visited. Perhaps he’d have applied to all 13 that were on the “visit” list. That wouldnt have surprised me. Visiting ruled out more than it ruled in, though it found “the one”.</p>
<p>Which brings me to Anagrampanda’s question (sorry to be so long-winded), about paring down her list. Have you had a chance to visit any/all of the schools on your list? Have you gone to individual college info sessions in your area, gone to a college fair, met with the adcomms that travel around, talked to alums, or read (my alltime favorite book) the Yale Daily New’s “Insiders guide to colleges”? Thats a <em>great</em> book that really gives a good “feel” for the school, geared specifically to students, – kinda like a Fiske Guide-lite. These are very helpful ways to give you more of a “feel” for the schools. Does weather make a difference at all?? We purposefully visited the northern schools in the dead of winter and the sountern and CA schools in the summer to get a real taste of what it would be like to attend. Visiting in the spring or early fall is lovely, but not a real taste of what it’s like to live at these schools in the brutal months. Hope these ideas help if you do want to pare down the list, anagram. thry the spread sheet idea too. Helped DS a lot (but not as much as the “Insiders Guide”. Great book, published annually.) Good luck!</p>