There is no shortage of instruction manuals on how to live your life, from religious texts, to philosophy, psychology, self-help advice and more. I think asking the question is a good sign. It’s always positive to wonder what is right for you. Seek and ye shall find. You will slowly find answers over decades, and It’s highly likely that they will be complex, ever evolving answers. No rush to have it figured out.
If CC makes you feel pressure to be someone you’re not, or makes you feel like rushing into decisions about your life’s calling, you might want to consider staying off it for awhile, or staying out of the kinds of threads that aren’t helpful to you. For example, I frequent the thread for parents of kids with 3.0-3.5 GPA’s. It helps me stay focused on the awesome person my son is becoming, and on helping him find a college where he can thrive, rather than comparing him to kids who are totally different people with different strengths.